Identity Attunement® AssessmentHow much of your life is built on who others expect you to be?
A 12-question reflection on how confidently you show up as you. Discover where you stand on the traits that shape genuine self-expression, in about six minutes.
Free. Takes 6 minutes. No pressure.
The traits that shape showing up as you
Self-worth
How deeply you believe your authentic self is worthy of love and respect.
Honest expression
How confidently you share opinions and feelings, even when they differ from others.
Healthy boundaries
How comfortably you say no without guilt or the pull to please.
Independent choices
How freely you decide without over-weighting what others might think.
Consistent identity
How steady you stay across family, peers and cultural expectations.
Self-clarity
How clearly you know and embrace the attributes that make you unique.
Clarity in three gentle steps
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Answer honestly
Move through 12 short statements about how you show up in everyday moments.
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See your tier
Get placed on a clear scale: Weak, Average, or Strong self-attunement.
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Reflect and grow
Notice the traits to nurture as you keep living as your authentic self.
You do not have to dim your brilliance to be accepted. Knowing who you are is the first step to living life fully.
Built to help you come home to your true self
This assessment grew from years of guiding people back to their authentic selves. It was designed as a gentle mirror: a way to notice, without judgment, how freely you express who you truly are.
Every question reflects a real trait that shapes confident, honest self-expression. The goal is simple: give you a clear, compassionate starting point for living as yourself.
Kim Anthony is a certified Executive Coach and founder of BrillianceMode, LLC, with over 25 years of leadership experience. She specializes in human capital development and organizational transformation, using neuroscience-backed strategies. Her approach empowers leaders to own their identity, clarify their purpose, and build resilience. She holds advanced credentials, including a doctorate level certification in neurochange and certifications in women in leadership and diversity, equity, and inclusion from Cornell University.
Additionally, drawing on her extensive background as a keynote speaker, ESPN analyst, and TV host, Kim offers specialized coaching and consulting in Executive Presentation Mastery to help leaders transform public speaking anxiety into confidence. From Keynote presentations to on-camera interviews, Kim Anthony is positioning leaders to use their voice to galvanize, motivate, and inspire.
What people take away from this personalized assessment
When I took the Identity Attunement® assessment, there were areas of my results I didn't like, and I knew I had to do something about them if I wanted to live as my authentic self. Kim and I reviewed the results together in our coaching sessions. She helped me see what was working and what wasn't, and to do it with grace rather than judgment. That honest look gave our coaching a real foundation. It moved me from simply noticing my gaps to making commitments and following through with discipline. I'd encourage any leader who wants clarity about who she is to take the assessment and let a coach like Kim guide her through the results.
Discover how attuned you are to your own identity
Twelve questions. Six minutes. One honest look at how freely you live as yourself.